English practice resource 20–30 minutes

Questions About Your Relationship

Practice answering questions about your husband, marriage, daily life, and proof of your relationship. These are real questions immigration officers may ask you during an Australian visa interview.

Intermediate friendly Speaking, vocabulary & roleplay
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The situation

You are applying for an Australian visa.

An immigration officer asks you questions about your relationship with your husband. You need to explain your relationship clearly and provide evidence that your relationship is genuine.

Your answers should be honest, specific, and show that you know details about your husband and your life together. Officers want to see proof that your relationship is real—not just that you both exist.

Essential vocabulary

Key words you will hear and use.

Word / Phrase Meaning
relationship The connection between two people
husband Your married male partner
spouse Married partner (formal)
marriage The legal bond between two people
married Legally joined in marriage
genuine relationship A real, sincere relationship (not fake)
proof of relationship Documents that show you are together
evidence Information that proves something is true
joint account A bank account shared by two people
shared bills Expenses you both pay for
photos together Pictures of you and your husband
travel history Record of places you have been
communication records Messages, calls, or emails between you
financial support Money provided to help someone
live together Share the same home
wedding certificate Official document of marriage

Common interview questions

Questions immigration officers may ask.

Basic Relationship Questions

  • How did you meet your husband?
  • When did you first meet?
  • When did you start dating?
  • How long have you been together?
  • When did you get married?
  • Where did you get married?
  • Who attended your wedding?
  • Where does your husband live?
  • How often do you see each other?

Daily Life Questions

  • Where do you and your husband live?
  • Do you live together?
  • What does your husband do for work?
  • What time does he usually go to work?
  • What do you usually do together?
  • How do you communicate when you are apart?
  • How often do you talk to each other?

Financial Questions

  • Do you have a joint bank account?
  • Do you share any expenses?
  • Does your husband financially support you?
  • Do you have any joint bills?
  • Do you own any property together?
  • Do you have evidence of your shared finances?

Proof and Evidence Questions

  • What documents can you provide?
  • Do you have photos together?
  • Do you have travel records?
  • Do you have messages or call records?
  • Do you have a marriage certificate?
  • What shows that you have lived together?

Useful answer patterns

Use these sentence structures to answer naturally.

Example 1
Question: How did you meet your husband?
Answer: "We met through a mutual friend in 2022. We were introduced at a dinner party."
Example 2
Question: How long have you been together?
Answer: "We've been together for about four years. We got married in 2024, so we've been married for less than a year."
Example 3
Question: How do you communicate when you're apart?
Answer: "We usually talk on the phone or video call every day. We also message each other when we're at work."
Example 4
Question: What evidence do you have of your relationship?
Answer: "We have photos together, our marriage certificate, travel records showing we've been to several countries together, and our phone records showing daily communication."
Example 5
Question: Do you share your finances?
Answer: "Yes. We have a joint bank account for household expenses, and we both contribute to the household bills."

Grammar focus

How long have you... and When did you...

How long have you...? (Present perfect)

How long have you been together?

→ "We've been together for four years."

How long have you been married?

→ "We've been married for two years."

Use "how long" to ask about the duration of something that started in the past and continues now.

When did you...? (Past simple)

When did you get married?

→ "We got married in 2024."

When did you first meet?

→ "We first met in 2020."

Use "when" to ask about the specific time or date of a completed action.

The difference

How long have you been together? Asks about the duration (started in the past, continues now)
When did you start dating? Asks about the specific date/time it began
Example: "We started dating in 2020. We got married in 2024. We've been married for two years." Shows all three: start date, marriage date, and current duration

Role-play practice

A sample immigration interview.

The officer asks real questions. Notice how the applicant gives specific, honest answers with details.

Immigration Officer
Good morning. I'd like to ask you some questions about your relationship with your husband.
Applicant
Yes, of course.
Immigration Officer
How did you meet your husband?
Applicant
We met through a mutual friend at a dinner party in 2020. My friend introduced us, and we started talking.
Immigration Officer
When did you start dating?
Applicant
We started dating a few months later, around August 2020.
Immigration Officer
How long have you been married?
Applicant
We've been married for about two years. We got married in June 2022.
Immigration Officer
Do you live together?
Applicant
Yes, we do. We have a home together with our own furniture and household items.
Immigration Officer
What does your husband do for work?
Applicant
He is an IT technician. He works for a software company downtown. He usually goes to work at 8 in the morning.
Immigration Officer
How do you communicate when you're apart?
Applicant
We usually video call every evening for about an hour. We also message each other during the day. And we send photos and updates to each other.
Immigration Officer
What evidence can you provide to prove your relationship?
Applicant
We have our marriage certificate, hundreds of photos together, travel records from three trips we took together, our joint bank account statements, and message records showing we talk almost every day.

Speaking challenge

Answer these questions yourself.

Try to answer each question without looking at the example first. Use your own real information. Do not memorize someone else's answer. The goal is to practice speaking naturally about your relationship.

What did you do together last weekend?

What did you give your husband for his last birthday?

What does your husband like to do in his free time?

What are your plans for the future?

Where do you plan to live in Australia?

Who usually pays for household expenses?

What do you usually do together after work?

When was the last time you travelled together?

Speaking practice

Interview practice questions.

Read each question. Speak your answer aloud. Then reveal an example answer to compare.

Question 1

How did you meet your husband?

Speak your answer aloud before clicking. Include: where, when, who was there, what was happening.

Example answer

"We met at a university library in 2019. I was studying, and he asked if the seat next to me was free. We started talking and became friends first. After a few months of friendship, we decided to start dating."

Question 2

What is something you and your husband have done together that made you feel close?

Think of a specific memory. Describe the event, when it happened, and why it was important.

Example answer

"We took a trip to Japan together for three weeks. We had saved money for the trip for almost a year. During the trip, we had to solve problems together when we got lost, and we supported each other. It made us realize we work well as a team, even when things don't go as planned."

Question 3

Tell me about the day you got married.

Describe the location, the people, the ceremony, and your feelings that day.

Example answer

"We got married in a small ceremony in our city on June 15th, 2022. We had close family and about 50 friends. It was a beautiful day. We had a simple ceremony at a local venue. I wore a white dress, and he wore a suit. After the ceremony, we had a small reception with dinner and dancing. It was one of the happiest days of my life."

Question 4

What is your husband's favorite food, and why do you think he likes it?

Show that you know specific details about your husband's preferences.

Example answer

"His favorite food is Thai curry. I think he loves it because it reminds him of his grandmother's cooking. His grandmother lived in Thailand, and she made similar dishes when he was a child. Now whenever we eat Thai curry together, he tells me stories about his childhood."

Question 5

How do you spend time together on a typical day?

Describe your daily routine, activities, and how you stay connected.

Example answer

"We usually wake up together and have breakfast. He goes to work around 8 in the morning. I work from home, so we have lunch together sometimes. In the evening, we cook dinner together. After dinner, we watch a TV show or read while sitting next to each other. Before bed, we always talk about our day. On weekends, we go for walks, visit friends, or cook special meals together."

Important: Always answer immigration questions truthfully and use your own real information. The example answers are only language examples to help you learn English. Never memorize these answers or pretend they are your story. Immigration officers can tell when answers are not genuine, and honesty is essential for your visa application. This lesson is for English practice only, not legal advice.

Ready to practice?

Your Next Step

Use this lesson to practice speaking about your relationship. Answer the questions aloud, even when you are alone. Record yourself and listen back. Practice until you can answer naturally and confidently, using specific details about your own life.